Some month ago i also had up to four "rings", before the fritzbox forwarded the ringing to the attached phones.
While having an old "emergency" corded phone before the Fritzbox (with an AMS1/2 electronic line switch), i can easily hear the ringing delay between the "emergency phone" and the corldess phone attached to the Fritzbox...
After doing a software update to version 0.88 (some weeks ago) and disabling the CLIP-forwarding in the webinterface => property menue of Fon1 to Fon3, i have less than 1 to 2 "rings" delay. I suspect that the digital DECT-phone connected to FON1 is responsible for about half a "ring", so the Fritzbox delay ist about one "ring", which in my opinion is acceptable.
K