Yea, that's the problem, there ist no such thing like a "supposed behaviour" of a "network".
this is for mainly configurations from remote. like reconfiguring a raspberry pi or something like that. Its too risky and difficult to do port forwarding to this service and that device...having the vpn for internal access, like in-organization, would be the easiest & most secure
Can you use a tunnel or do you need a bridging connection (much more hassle)?
Which settings are possible in your clients (regarding static key or certificates, ciphers, compression)?
Im not familiar with tunnel/bridge setup in that scenario or its effects when talking about vpn. sorry 
About settings, Well, whatever is enough for my requirements is fine with me. Im sure all of them are secure enough.
I need to configure my android as well, so im not sure what is possible and what is not.. but as i understand with static key only I can access the vpn, and no one else in parallel to me. correct?
Following the possible settings on all of your clients you should be able to set them inside the OpenVPN GUI:
First Step:
Until the connection is working, put start type to "manual".
Then just follow the settings, as you decided for your settings:
Select "Server" (obviously ;-)
Then "TUN" or "TAP" and protocol (UDP is preferred)
Which one suites better for my needs?
Select static key or certificates for security and select the cipher as on your client ("blowfish" is the default).
If you want to use "static key" copy it from the box to your clients.
Note: only with certificates there can be more than one client connected.
If you need certificates, copy them to your box (there is one entry in the menu for all the needed files:
cert of ca, cert and key for the server and the dh-file).
Next step is IP settings and routing. If it doesn't collide with the clients, just use the proposed network for TUN.
Fill in the max number of clients to connect, this will allow to set an IP network rather than a point-to-point IP setting.
Then give a "DHCP range" for the clients (e.g. "192.168.200.10 192.168.200.20")
Last option is to decide wether to use lzo compression.
After all that, How do I actually enter all the settings to my phone / laptop?